How To Reach A Child Custody Agreement Without Court

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How To Reach A Child Custody Agreement Without Court

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If you plan to co-parent while living separately from your child’s other parent, you need to make a decision about how to share child custody.

You can go to court and ask a judge to determine what is best. Unfortunately, this is often expensive and may not result in favorable outcomes for anyone because the judge doesn’t know your family very well.

It is also possible, and often preferable, to reach a child custody agreement without going to court. But you need to know what is involved in this process. This guide helps you understand what steps you must take to create a custody plan without a judge doing it for you.

Why Should You Create a Child Custody Agreement Without Court?

There are significant benefits to creating a child custody agreement on your own rather than asking a court to create an agreement for you. Here are some of the biggest advantages:

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